Never help others.

[Guess]

Ok so I'm not going to name anyone in this thread only talk about the reason why I feel this way now. I alowed a friend to have his intake shipped to me no big deal said persons mom and dad don't like parts coming to there house I guess so I was the nice guy and said ship it here and we will put it in.... needless to say I put it in taking time out of my life to work on a car that does not belong to me so theres strike one, so we go out and chill meet up with a friend and just hang out talking about cars and what have you. Well I'm tired and feel like calling it a night (hardly slept the night before) now waiting at home I have a 1 year old very friendly Bulldog who loves new people now mind you said friend was warned that my bully likes to jump on people intill they give her some love and then she chills and goes on here way. So fast foreward to this afternoon Said friend has headed back home and msgs me that afternoon and we talk and as always I give some advice on the car and so on an so forth, Then the complaining about my dog starts but the dog is called a Mut now I want to know when a $1500 Pure Breed Bulldog becomes a Mut!. It seems that they did not like the way my dog was trying to get said person to pay any mind to her (her being my dog). So I stated that the dog lives here this is her home and I can't change the way she greats new people shes just trying to be friendly and I in now way ment it to be harsh. So said person stops talking after that and start it would seem complaining to a friend well by now I've had enough about the drama of this whole thing so I state that I will no longer be rolling with said person and I will not be in contact.

So do you guys think its wrong for me to be pissed when I busted my *** for someone, opened my home to them, and then they blast my dog, and when I voice how I feel they block me .

Please all comments are welcome.

(pardon any typo's but when your mad you tend not to pay them any heed) :(

[evan938]

is this a guy or a girl? im guessing a girl caus if its a guy, id have to slap him and call him a pussy...

as for the dog, who cares what "said friend" thinks

[Guess]

I just find it amazing that after the **** I did that they ***** about my dog and call her a mut its just ****in insulting.

[KincaidCharade]

Not to hijack your thread... but is there anything wrong with mutts? I personally think they're the best dogs... they're generally healthier. When someone says "I have a purebred... such and such..." My reaction is... "Um... so? You probably spent too much..." It really sucks that your friend was ungrateful... but I think you might be overracting a little too.

[Guess]

Nothing wrong with Mutts in the least there just as good as most pure breed dogs I have nothing against them I just find it disrespectful to diss someone elses pets. And you know maybe I am overracting but then again I think talking **** to another friend about how they may not hang out with me in the future is stupied just because I told them how I felt about there issues with my dog. .

[BlackElantraGT]

I think you're over reacting just a bit man. Your friend may not realize that your dog is a purebred bulldog. Not everyone is an animal person. I'm not an animal person, and personally bulldogs are one of the uglier dogs out there and I would call one a mutt myself. I can't stand it when people can't train their dogs to not jump on people when they see them. Our German Shepard at home does that **** and it pisses me off, because his dirty paws gets on my clothes, and worse, scratches up my car.

Your dog and your act of kindness by letting the person ship something to your house are two seperate things. They don't owe you the world. And you should never expect anything in return. If the person blatantly said "you're dog is a piece of ****. Someone should put it out of it's misery with a shotgun" then yeah, I'd be pissed. But if they just complained about your "mutt", get over it and maybe you should train your dog a little better.

[Guess]

bull**** if someone wants to sleep in my home then guess what they have to deal with my dog its that simple sorry I'm not going to get over it when I do something for someone I expect a little respect in the end not for them to turn around and diss my dog and talk about it to other people thats stupied and childish and that shines through more when I tell them how I feel about it and they ignore me and act all ****ing drama queen about it and block me from there IM after I did things for them that I never had to do in the first place. And If they had done what I told them to just pet her for a min or two she would have gone on her merry way like she does with anyone else. So yes I respect how you feel but don't ****ing tell me how I need to train my dog .

I can't stand it when people can't train their dogs to not jump on people when they see them. Our German Shepard at home does that **** and it pisses me off, because his dirty paws gets on my clothes, and worse, scratches up my car.
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cuz in the end its the pot calling the kettle black.

[BlackElantraGT]

bull**** if someone wants to sleep in my home then guess what they have to deal with my dog its that simple sorry I'm not going to get over it when I do something for someone I expect a little respect in the end not for them to turn around and diss my dog and talk about it to other people thats stupied and childish and that shines through more when I tell them how I feel about it and they ignore me and act all ****ing drama queen about it and block me from there IM after I did things for them that I never had to do in the first place. And If they had done what I told them to just pet her for a min or two she would have gone on her merry way like she does with anyone else. So yes I respect how you feel but don't ****ing tell me how I need to train my dog .

Seriously,

You seem like an angry person. Just chill. You're a drama queen yourself if you're upset over someone calling your purebred bulldog a mutt. Smoke some weed if you have to. Peace.

[Guess]

Thats not the point the point is that after opening my home to someone, work on there car while they did nothing is what pisses me off thats my point and that pisses me off more then the dog if you actully read the first post you might notice that the dog falls third on the list of things and all I did was say how I felt about there comment about my dog and they act like I slapped them in the face and start saying there not sure if they want to hang out with me again. I'm Done defending myself on this I have all the right in the world to feel like I was used by this person and they found a ****ty reason to not be friends.

[vabeach_03]

ryan. i know the situation and i am sideing with both of you. i understand where your comming from and your dog is annoying at times.!

[Guess]

Oh trust me I know that I have to live with her lol but seriously I think said person was just a little to touchy about my reply to there comment.

[BlackElantraGT]

Sometimes you just have to be the bigger man and walk away from it. So the person stayed at your house, and you fixed their car for free. And in the end, they insult you and your dog. That's definitely an ingrateful person and someone I wouldn't consider as a friend. There will always be someone who tries to take advantage of your generosity. If they're making a big deal about not wanting to be your friend, let them. You're better off without that person anyway. I get the feeling this is a female friend so if that's the case, you're definitely better off without her.

[Guess]

actully black its not a chick. I take friends very seriously though I always have its just something thats always ment alot being as my father is in the navy we moved around alot so having friends has always been hard and since coming to VA I've found it very hard to make friends and I guess when I get snubbed I just take it that much harder Cuz I don't have many friends here all my true friends are back home in CT and even there they are few and far between since we have all gone our diffrent ways.

[BlackElantraGT]

I can understand where you are coming from in regards to keeping friends, but from my personal experience, some friends come and go while others make a lasting impression and that's just part of life. People move on and go about with their daily lives. I used to be the guy who had tons of friends but now my circle of friends is very small. I really know who my friends are now. They're the ones that will be there for you through thick and thin. If your friend knew that he insulted you or hurt your feelings in any way, even if he felt he wasn't at fault, he'd apologize especially considering you did him a favor. That's what a true friend would do at least. Don't make yourself look desperate by wanting to keep his friendship when he's used you and now insulting you on top of it. Don't be his *****. Sometimes you just have to let some people go even if it hurts, you know?

[Guess]

Yup I understand what your saying.

[only1db]

when the dog jumps...start squeezing its paws...it will learn real quick not to jump on people...not too hard...just to make it uncomfortable....you will have more friends that way.....

sounds like you are blowing this thing out of proprotion....many people just dont have a positive regard for dogs as you do....and that is something you have to except...should they be rude and be like that....no...but if your friends with the individual....its all good

one of my closests friends put pepper in my cats eyes....not thinking about it during dinner because the cat was begging....its not a big deal....my wife freaked a little but it blinked for like an hour...and it was fine....your dog doesnt know that i was called a mut nor does she know what a mut is....so stop being the drama queen!! ya heard!

[tharptroy]

yeah, i think the both of you need to relax. I love it when dogs or cats come up to me and be friendly when I visit a place, and I dont mind them jumping on me. some people dont... tell your friend not to be a little ***** about it, and you dont need to defend your dogs breed name, its a dog, he doesnt know what being a mut means.

[GTSpeedRacer]

I think there should be a 100% tax on buying purebred animals- whatever you pay requires a similar $$ donation to the SPCA....to pay $1500 for a dog while perfectly good dogs and cats are being destroyed in animal shelters is wrong.

I think the point of your rant- helping someone and then they show a lack of concideration by degrading something you care about- is valid.

[only1db]

^ yeah but in this instance has nothing to do with that person...if you help that person out and then they turn around and dick you when you ask them for help...then its valid...just because he "disrespects" his dog....is a little dramatic

[vabeach_03]

said person asked for helped, ryan didn't but got dicked. i know ryan and he doesn't ask for much help. i gave him a hand when we swapped manifolds. he wouldn't of even needed my help but i have skinny hands and its easier for me to get at them.

[XTRAWLD]

Holy high school.....geeze :rolleyes:

[Gman]

Dude you need to chill, it's a dog and a bad dog at that.

If you don't like what he said about your dog you should do something about, like fix your dog. What if your dog that pissed on your friends foot, would you be mad at the friend or the dog. Jumping on people is not a good thing, what if she jumps on a little kid and hurts them? You could find yourself at the wrong end or a lawsuit.

Sorry, but you need to learn how to train her before you go loosing friends because they complained about your dogs BAD habits. It is more disrepectable to let your dog jump on people, then it is to call it a mutt. All those $1500 papers mean is you have a $1500 dollar badly trained dog.

[Guess]

and again relize that its not just about the dog which I've said many times now but no one seems to ****ing get so unless people can actully relize that don't respond the dog is just one of a few things listed and all most all of you are doing is focusing on that and not the whole picture. Honestly Gman if someone is not going to be friends with someone because of there dog I find that really stupied and childish. When the dog was called a mutt my only replay was first off shes not a mutt and this is her home she lives here so weather or not that sounds harsh it was not ment to and I even said that yet it was still taken far to personally. The dog is not a bad dog you don't live with her and don't know her so how can you judge she does what she is told when she jumps she is told to stop and she'll stop so don't act like you know so much about my dog.

[Gman]

Your whole flame was complaining that you did something for someone and they had the nerve to "blast" your dog. It doesn't matter what you did for them, if your dog has bad habits they have a right to say something. You then told them that it's her house and if they don't like it you won't be their friend. Why are you now upset they are blocking you? You already said you were chosing the dog over them so don't get mad that they are helping you not be their friend by blocking you.

Helping someone doesn't give you or your dog a free pass to be an ***.

[Guess]

No what I told them that its my house and the dog lives here its her home not his and he just stoped talking to me and started complaining to a friend when my friend asked if we would all still hang out he said he did not know and it was really doubtful that and only at that time was when made the comment about no longer wishing to chill with him cuz he was acttting like an *** because I defended my dog. I don't need someone to start saying they don't want to hang out when I have the right to voice how I feel about them *****ing thats silly if they have a right to ***** I have the right to say how I feel about it to I respect that he was a little annoyed over the dog but to drag other friends in to it and start saying you don't want to hang out with someone is just nuts..

[mbv2001]

Well maybe ya'll shouldn't be friends
I see what your saying how you went out
Of your way to do him a fav then he talks
Trash about your dog that isn't to cool
So a dog jumped on you isn't a big deal
Same time you shouldn't care cause friends
Come and go if he going talking how he don't know if yall was still going to hang out maybe he wasn't a true friend from the start
But you shouldn't get all worked up about doesn't seem 2 be worth it

[Gman]

sound like your better off without them as friends anyway.

I would just highly recomend you do some basic training on your dog quick, before she gets any older. Jumping up is a very bad habit that is very easy to break. It should not be something you live with or think you can't change.