girl problems

[seraph0503]

protecting my privacy
and how do i make a poll?? nevermind

[zhg411xd]

what is she going to do say no?

[4mynikka]

dude the best thing to do is to find out how serious she is with the bf... and then go from there... REMEMBER she has to be interested in you before you act... however I live by going for it instead of regretting something that I didn't do. SO if you really want to I say go for it you have nothing to lose and possibly a great girl to gain.

[Gearcat]

She has a boyfriend. If they are a couple, that means the two go together. Befriend them both. Your friendship with her boyfriend will probably last longer.

[SuperGLS]

Who the hell needs another friend when there is a hot girl to be had?

90% of girls with boyfriends don't like their boyfriends, meaning, you come in and do the friend thing for a minute, then she'll see you are better for her, and bam.

Good luck.

[shadow5606]

you only live once... don't do the nasty while she's still serious w/ some other guy but hang out w/ her and see where it goes. If you two hit it off she might become a little less serious w/ the "other guy". If not... there are other fish in the sea.

[BlackElantraGT]

Hmm, from what I know so far it doesn't seem like there's any flirting going on just yet since you said you were talking today with her about homework. She probably mentioned her bf for a reason. Girls aren't stupid. I think if she was interested in something more than platonic, she wouldn't have mentioned so soon that she had a bf.

To me it doesn't seem like you know the girl all too well yet if your approach method was asking her about homework. That's not bad or anything, it's a first step and a good way to start up a conversation, but I don't think you're at a point where you should ask her out just yet, especially knowing that she currently has a bf.

That's just my $.02

[Gomez]

BlackElantraGT is right. If she's "really pretty" like you said and you start with the "let's be friends and hang out" stuff then she'll see through your bull**** right away. Hot girls always know when I guy wants to bang 'em.

If she actually loves her boyfriend and he treats her well then you don't have a chance. If he's an ******* and treats her accordingly then maybe you have a chance. At the very least she might use you to make him jealous and that's something.

Try your best to act like you don't "like her" like her, just treat her like a friend. Better yet, tell her "dating" someone, but nothing too serious, that will let her put her guard down.

[slow 2K2GT]

I dont care what others say about this...NEVER CUT ANOTHER MANS GRASS!!! Leave any thoughts about pursuing her alonbe until shes single. Hang back, if she wants to be with you than she will end her relationship on her own. DONT DONT DONT do anything until that time.

[rckozma]

I am with slow, besides do you really want to start looking over your shoulder everytime you are out by yourself. If the bf even thinks something is going on there could be trouble. Whatever happen to the golden rule of "Do unto others as you would have done to you". Besides if she goes out with you while she is with him could you ever really trust her?

[Nerraux]

I'm with Slow, and would only add that 90% of the women that /would/ go out with someone if they already have a bf come with something else -- baggage. Steer clear. You can be her friend, and if the timing works out later, tag it. But there are too many other eligible ladies out there to waste time trying to pry one off of someone else.

[vahyundai]

I dont care what others say about this...NEVER CUT ANOTHER MANS GRASS!!!... :bowdown: :bowdown: :bowdown:

there are a lot of single pretty women out there! and as said before can u trust her. this one hot girl told me that most pretty women are single because men are intimidated by their looks or suspect they are already involved with someone.

[billydog]

have a mysterious accident happen to the boyfriend than you slide in and play the comfort angle

seriously though, if she is seeing someone i wouldnt bother. Would you like it if you were seeing a girl than one day another guy came and took her away?

[Sledge]

I personally wouldnt want some A$$ hitting on my GF so I dont do it to others.
If she and her BF break up then maybe but even then........Do you want to be a rebound??

[seraph0503]

nah i've known her all semester. i just called her today about some hw and then we started talking about car shows and how she wants to model and stuff and i found out she was really into cars. i'd been looking at her all year but didn't really approach her cus i didn't think we had much in common. but the hw talk lasted all of 3 minutes and the car talk was a good hour. plus she knows i'm into asian girls and was talking about hooking me up with one of her friends.

thing is i'm gonna be seeing her alot for the next 2 years anyway...

[Mr. Dan]

Hmmm if she told you about the BF already, I'd hang back and see what she hooks you up with. If she was really getting and getting down and dirty in short order, the BF would have been kept under the table. Just my 200 won. :)

Those Asian girls are cunning and tricky, beware. I came to Korea as a dedicated Korean car hater just for something interesting to do with the intention of being celebate and clean from drugs and stuff for a year. I woke up this morning and 5 years have passed, I'm married, have a Korean car and I have a grow op in my closet. BEWARE. I was being seduced and I didn't even know it. They are as cunning as they are sexy :) Just a warning from a blissfully happy fool.

[JacksonJ]

Ha ha ha ha, you know someone had to do it.


:pics2:

:worthless

[faraco3]

Let her go, there are way too many girls out there, that dont have anyone.

[hyunelan2]

If she's already got a guy, don't push it. Maybe she's got a friend?

On a sidenote, part of this discussion was about 'laying back and waiting' or something to that effect. Going back to my college days (before I met my wife of course) there was twice that I decided the 'lay back and wait' method was a good idea. Wouldn't you know that in both cases the girl from my class ended up dating one of my fraternity brothers... strange how that happens. Anyway, what I'm saying is if there's a girl you think you might want to get to know better, you gotta do something about it. If you don't, some other guy will - then she's off the market.

In this particular case though, she's already gone. Sure, there's nothing wrong with befriending her, or hanging out - but you shouldn't fool yourself into thinking it's going to go farther than that, if that's not what she has intended.

[getfuzzd]

Just ask once, nothing to lose, and worst thing that can happen is she says no, either bacause of her BF or or other reasons.

[XTRAWLD]

It's not like you can't start on the friendship trail to start....then work on it later when you can size everything up after at least speaking with her for a while first.

[watson80]

There are too many hot girls out there to mess with one that has a boyfriend. I never mess with girls that have boyfriends. Its not worth the extra hassle. Just go find another hottie chances are it wont take too long! But on the other hand If you are too the point where you think SHE IS THE 1 why not go after it. Ifd she says no you are no worse off than you are now!

[Nyck]

You're still in school, i'm not sure how young you are but right now you are free. Enjoy the single life and experience what you can. One day you'll think back and think it was silly to actually try and get with someone who was taken. But you can still check up on her every now and then and say "how's it going" maybe somewhere down the road she'll be single. Just don't completely go away if you want a chance with her. And it's not a crime to ask if she wants to hang out sometime. Even if it is just grabbing some lunch to talk.

[wildman92]

I'll give my take on the situation as I had something similiar happen when I was in college. The girl and the guy she was seeing were both friends of mine. I held back stayed friends with them and when he screwed up and she became available, we hooked up. My suggestion is to make friends with her, keep it to schoolwork and cars and when she becomes available you will be there to step in. Just don't push things or you could ruin even a friendship with her.

[mbv2001]

Yea just hang out and be friends and she can always hook you up with someone..... But I wouldn't mess with a girl with a bf he could be a thick neck football player with something to prove..jk..but best 2 be friends and get the hook up ;-)

[tharptroy]

yeah...you need to leave that piece alone until she loses the boyfriend

[seraph0503]

nah he's a ricer....but anyway i'm gonna go delete posts so they don't show up somewhere else...

[Blackdiamond]

Dont befriend her... be nice.. like a gentalman... let her see whats shes missing... and if she dont go for it.... goto the next one...

"Out of 100 woman in this room ... one of them is going to say yes"-Gene Simmons of Kiss

[watson80]

play it cool. chicks dig the mysterious guys!