Thanks for the 14mm tip. I did try to get a grip on it but it is very thin so, being the idiot I am I ended up rounding off the head. So, I decided just to spend the extra $30 to purchase new sway bar links. They should be replaced anyway, right???
Plus, this will give me an excuse to go buy a grinder to cut off the old ones.
Funny how I am not GOOD at working on cars but I do ENJOY it!